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First Step: Let Go of Shame

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Addiction thrives on shame—it whispers you’re a failure, keeps you hiding. But you’re not the problem; you’re in a fight. First, ditch the guilt: grab a scrap of paper, write one thing you’re ashamed of—“I messed up last night,” whatever it is. Now rip it up, toss it. Tell yourself, “I’m more than this.” It’s not a fix, but it’s a crack in shame’s armor. Next, reach out—call the Illinois Warm Line at 1-866-359-7953, Monday to Friday, 8 AM to 5 PM. No crisis needed; just say, “I’m struggling.” They’ll listen, no judgment. I saw this work—a friend carried shame for years, thought he was trash. One day, he told me, “I can’t keep this in.” He called a line, cried, and slept better that night. In Will County, you’ve got options like Stepping Stones at (815) 744-4555—people who get it. Shame says you’re alone; that’s a lie. You’re human, worth helping. Try this: stand up, look in a mirror, say, “I’m fighting, and that’s enough.” One small move—ripping paper, making a call—starts the shift. You don’t have to carry this forever. Let it go today, even a little. You’re stronger than the weight.


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